Divorced men ..

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Re: Divorced men ..

@kurripunjaban

Agreed. But another important point to raise here is when a man stays quiet, regardless of whether he was in the right or wrong, it is generally assumed he was in the right. Like you said, he’s staying quiet out of moral obligation. A lot of men brush things under the carpet because they know their own actions were despicable too. So it’s best to not speak about them at all.

Whereas if a woman stays quiet, it’s assumed she has something to hide and therefore was wrong and the blame is put on her.

We can agree on that and I take it as every individual case is different. Its unfortunate that on one side we know we shouldnt be quite yet we stay quite for wutever reason.
And one’s upbringing has a lot to do as well. For example a lot of guyz are brought up with the teaching that they are supposed to treat women with utmost respect and not even raise the voice but then those guyz end up meeting women who are abusive towards them and call him names. Not sure if I should call it luck or what but its very very unfortunate and dark.