Divorced men ..

third_string · October 13, 2017, 4:55pm

Re: Divorced men ..

Being a doormat and putting up with abuse never solves anything. Since girls lose ten folds in a desi break up so they are logically the ones who try the hardest to make things work. Also most girls from desi culture are brought up to be quite giving and caring and to cede rights and freedoms so I feel majority of the divorces involves situations where life has been made hell for her. Any female poster here who has been divorced has mentioned lack of respect, caring, love and rampant abuse by family and husband. Of the few I have intimate knowledge about involved severe abuse, blackmail for money etc. One of the posters here had posted about his issues with his wife and it was quite apparent that he feels very negatively about women and is abusive towards her and then acts as a victim if she stands up for her rights.

Didn’t your first wife divorce you? You were probably abusive towards her.