Divorced men ..

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Re: Divorced men ..

And I think generally (not always), divorcee men and women iin desi culture end up with the same fate, with the exception of one step only:

i.e. Divorcee men get rejected AFTER consideration..

While women with the same status get rejected before..

To me, it’ll take around 10+ years for our people to start taking it NOT as a taboo.

@Xaos

From what I have seen

1. None of the divorced men I know of are taking care of their kids financially nor share custody. Apart from one none of them bothered to even keep in touch with their kids,so it’s like they wipe the slate clean and consider themselves in a position to start all over again with zero baggage.

2. In most of the cases the immediate families of divorced men are supportive of them remarrying and actively look for rishtas. This isn’t the case with divorced females where it’s assumed they should focus only on raising their kids.

3. The desi cultures obsession with female virginity! Just because the hymen isn’t intact over rides all other good qualities and renders the females as damaged goods. No one thinks of divorced men the same way.

I live in Pakistan ,things might be different in the west.