Divorced men ..

[Bobby1]

Re: Divorced men ..

@tissues

What you think the reason is?

The physiology of women’s design is not designed for rough sports like you mentioned. Young girls who choose to play rough sports have more sports related injuries which actually relate to their physical structure. If you take a look at the basic bone structure of men & basic bone structure of women, there is a huge difference in knees of men & knees of women, female hips are different than male hips. So there is a physical difference, accept it. Now Obviously there are certain woman who are strong & there are certain men who are weak, so there is that.

People like you have developed this culture of outward overachievement which is not doing any good but harm to the society as you mentioned there are more single family households then couples.

I mean physical strength to do daily tasks, we are a lot stronger than we think, in Pak I was an engineer and a lot of these rangar women would do hard labor at pouring concrete. Of course there is physiological differences but a woman is not so weak to depend on a man . When I go hiking I see scores of females hike up with heavy bags and sometimes their partners are not carrying the load. Most of the girls here at work can lift boxes of supplies and stuff and help move a couch, table etc. What is encouraged here is don’t worry about things you cant change, I cant change society so I will give my kids the skills to thrive in this society. Many strong, smart, financially successful women I see are way more satisfied with their lives compared to some oppressed abused married woman. Because of guys loke me women have greater rights here and enjoy great freedoms and success in life.

There are more single houses here because women don’t need to put up with chit, a gori would not put up with a hundredth of chit I read on this forum. A single Taana from saasu jaan and saasu will be on the street.

Also divorce rate in muslims in USA is around 50 percent so really muslim women here are refusing to accept bs also..

So how is the underachievement culture better?