Divorced desi men n women

[Nisha25]

Re: Divorced desi men n women

@aaliyahkhan1

My parents have been seperated since I was around 9yrs old…and then finally got divorced when i was 16yrs. It was hell till they actually got divorced…they wouldn’t speak to each other properly..if they did it was always bitter words..and ofcoz they would drag me into the middle of all of it. But I think finally they learnt that they needed to “get along” if they were ever going to give me a proper future..I still think it was a bit too late for them to have made that decision when I was already 16. So, parents need to think of their children, because it is not the child’s fault that they had emotional or physical trauma..child needs both parents..but more than that..the child needs to see the parents being cordial with each other…so no matter how much it hurts, the “Hi/Hello” is very important.

so do think that they should have divorced b/c it was more traumatic on the child/children when they have to see all traumatic stuff that might happen in these volatile marriages right?

if you don’t mind me asking, did your parents remarry or did they devote all their efforts into making your future bright? i guess it takes a much higher level of maturity to think only of the child when the parents are pretending to be happy and cordial especially when the relations aren’t good at all.