Divorce

[StormRaiser]

Re: Divorce

PCG, I think you should go for this one. That said, I would want you to do a few basic things to be on the safer side.

1. If you have any male friends whom you can trust, introduce them to him. Later ask them for an honest opinion. Guys have an uncanny ability to find a phony
2. When you are with him at a restaurant, observe how he behaves with waiters etc
3. Also please cold shoulder him for a couple of days. See his reaction. Does he let go too easily. Does he walk away too easily. I have seen guys who flee at the first sign of trouble.

Anyways keep us posted on how this goes. Wishing you all the best. I will have a biriyani and a peg to celebrate…

Also just check if he is on GS. You might never know. He might be reading your posts.

Also a simple word of advice if you dont mind. Add some fictitious details also so that even if he reads this, he would not know that it is he we are all talking about

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Divorce

@Sehrysh

I’ve seen it happen.

Cousin of a friend (back in Pakistan) got married with all the pomp and ceremony. On the wedding night, she says if you touch me, my boyfriend will kill you and your family. Give me a divorce.

The guy was stressed and his family couldn’t figure why he as a newlywed was so unhappy. He records the threats by the wife, plays it for her family and his and then he divorces her. So yeah, the world is made up of all sorts.

That being said, you’re entitled to find out more. Ask him whether his ex married her boyfriend, is she still single - do a bit of your own research.

Weird. Again, who does crazy stuff like this?

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Divorce

@StormRaiser

PCG, I think you should go for this one. That said, I would want you to do a few basic things to be on the safer side.

1. If you have any male friends whom you can trust, introduce them to him. Later ask them for an honest opinion. Guys have an uncanny ability to find a phony
2. When you are with him at a restaurant, observe how he behaves with waiters etc
3. Also please cold shoulder him for a couple of days. See his reaction. Does he let go too easily. Does he walk away too easily. I have seen guys who flee at the first sign of trouble.

Anyways keep us posted on how this goes. Wishing you all the best. I will have a biriyani and a peg to celebrate…

Also just check if he is on GS. You might never know. He might be reading your posts.

Also a simple word of advice if you dont mind. Add some fictitious details also so that even if he reads this, he would not know that it is he we are all talking about

Well, better he figure out I’m PCG earlier than later.

[StormRaiser]

Re: Divorce

A guy would not want to know that his prospective would be is discussing about him here…

I certainly would not like it. It would make me run

[Hadeel]

Re: Divorce

Divorces don’t define people. It’s not really written on stone that whoever gets married will stay married until they die. People grow and learn from their mistakes. If he doesn’t trash talk about her and has told you how it went down, you should respect that and give him a chance.

Also girls can be HUGE meanies. So that isn’t something unheard of.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Divorce

it’s ok, this is a non-specific enough entry.

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Divorce

Point well taken. Thanks.

[Azad]

Re: Divorce

@Sehrysh

I’ve seen it happen.

Cousin of a friend (back in Pakistan) got married with all the pomp and ceremony. On the wedding night, she says if you touch me, my boyfriend will kill you and your family. Give me a divorce.

The guy was stressed and his family couldn’t figure why he as a newlywed was so unhappy. He records the threats by the wife, plays it for her family and his and then he divorces her. So yeah, the world is made up of all sorts.

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Sach kaha