I get sad and disturbed when I read about peoples’ divorce stories. I can’t even begin to imagine how traumatizing it must be for those who go through it, especially when it’s not planned or wanted. I hope none of us ever have to face it, iA. After reading so many threads here, I think there should be a discussion on how to prevent yourself from getting into that situation.
In my opinion, never, ever bring divorce in any of your arguments, NEVER. No matter how bad the fight is, how intolerable your husband is.. because divorce is no bachon ka khel. Take a break if you need to, move away to your parents house or something, just seperate for a bit to think things through before throwing in the big one. Get an Imam involved if you need to. Divorce is disastrous to say the least.. especially when done in anger and impulsively. Every couple has issues, and I think most of them can be resolved by talking and discussing things openly and calmly.
We know someone who got into a fight with her husband, and taunted him saying, what are you gonna do, and in his fit of anger, her husband divorced her. Always remember, nothing makes a shaitaan happier than causing trouble between a husband and wife.