divorce

[Reha]

@Muzna

hmm…that’s an interesting situation…if they stop talking to you there is little that you can do except perhaps share your feelings and thoughts in writing. I would encourage the person that has been alienated do that. At least that way they will have tried everything possible.

Have someone else talk to them…if they will listen.

If someone just wants to go then there is little that you can do to make them stay. It sounds like the person has already made up their mind and are closed to potential resolution. The bigger issue is that this didn’t happen overnight…must have taken some time…perhaps efforts made now are too little, too late.

Even if this is true…the other person has an obligation to communicate their feelings to their spouse…thats only if they ever wanted to make the marriage work. If they dont, they cannot blame the other person for such and such because they failed to do their part to address it like a mature adult.

If I dont like the way he talks to me, then I need to tell him. How else will he know what he is doing might hurt me? The same rule applies to him.

Its not possible to be married and be the only one doing the work…its a two way street and efforts should come from both sides to keep it together. Why be married to someone who doesnt want to be married? Why be married just to be able to say “Im married”?

No one likes being divorced but it seems a better solution then being married to someone unhappily.