Divorce, Separation why do it if there aren't any

[Nisha25]

Re: Divorce, Separation why do it if there aren’t any

@Notanothergirl

Well Im really proud of your cousin’s husband, but there are a lot of cases where the husband/wife that have cheated continue to do so, with other people or still continue an extramarital affair with one other person. Either way I think its fair for the husband or the wife to break it of after the first time because this is case of trust, and its hard to gain it back once you have lost it. When one partrner is giving you nothing but “wafa” they should expect nothing less than complete “wafa” from their husband /wife . Unlinke your cousin’s husband many spouses also like to play the game after they have cheated, stating that they were left with no choice but to cheat because they were missing something in their marital life.In addition to that some people cannot get over the idea that their spouse was romantically/sexually involved with someone else besides them and this can cause a lot of mental trauma and bitter feelings later on in the marriage. So I think even if the spouse is caught cheating once and their partner wants to end it…fair enough.

oh no i totally agree with you in this case, this type of situation is emotional abuse to the max, the amount that the spouse would go through constantly being suspicious of the philandering spouse, i see how they would go crazy. my aunt did divorce her husband b/c he had an affair but he actually ended up marry the woman he had an affair with.

the time when you see the person you love feeling love and genuine loving feelings for another woman can be excruciatingly painful even if the spouse gave it everything they’ve got in the relationship. when i was saying infidelity i was talking that one time moment of lustful weakness…most people would not agree with me, normally i would agree with them but it’s just that one situation of my cous’s hubs changing from an arrogant, very high on himself(he is very very good looking so he does get a lot of female attention) to a very humble good hubby to my cousin after his one moment of weakness, obviously this is not the norm with most infidelity situations, the person would never change their ways