Re: Divorce children...help
It is quite sad to hear that your ex husband has not taken a keen interest in the welfare of an offspring for whom he was equally responsible to bring into this world.He whould have at least kept in touch and reassured that no matter what happens he would always love his son. How selfish of a person is he?. Cyme, do u know that everything was well when he left I mean he could have kept in touch..I mean you know God forbids..he is alive and kicking isnt he??Just a passing thought form my side.Anyway back to the topic...do u think he did that I mean left without saying anything so that he wouldnt have to fess up to his Child support...??
Anyway in my opinion...good riddane to a man who showed his worth when he didnt even turn around to look at the life he created..for whom he was still the hero!!...Tsk tsk...wat a sorry specimen of a man!!:(
Oh I just remembered that I went off the topic again...I know how hard it must be for you to play double duty..but you know and Allah is watching that Inshallah you will be able to provide the love that this precious son of yours will hold dear to.May Allah give you courage and patience(I know how it is with kids:))....You will be rewarded a plenty...I know personally you must have had your plate ful to begin with , with all this stress of a life now all alone, and on top of it , the frustration of an uncaring father ...Inshallah think of it as "this too shall pass"...happy times are ahead of you and your son.:)....
I would also suggest you reading Dr Phil's book called "Family First"..it is really a good book in understanding our children:)May Allah bless you for being a strong mother.