Divorce and Sex????

[kchughtai]

Re: Divorce and Sex???

@blessed2006

^You said the wife and husband are allowed to get back together if she is still doing her iddat (a new nikkah wont be needed) or mutual reconciliation (a new nikkah needed since iddat time passed). this facility is only available two times.

so how about halala? cant they get back together doing halala if its the third time?

also if the the man has divorced his wife and than contacts her before her iddat finishes. has she got a choice to say yes or no to him?

about halala: Halala is actually planning their getting back together i.e., woman gets married to another man, consummates the marriage and gets divorce just to be with the first husband. THIS is totally ILLEGAL and UNACCEPTABLE in Islam and equates to making a mockery of divine law.
The woman can get married to another man if she wishes to and start living with him and in case similar situation arises and she gets divorce again then she has the option to marry her first husband but this process cannot and must not be planned.
This whole process is meant to tell the people that marriage and divorce is not a game that you can do again and again. This law actually sets a deterrence to divorce.

regarding your second question, I am not completely sure about it but within in ‘iddat’ time period, the nikkah is still valid. If the woman wants to say no and man wants to reconcile then I think woman should resort to ‘Khulla’