Re: disturbed
^ na, don't try to desensitize the problem. Can you guys imagine what that little girl must have felt like. She had every right to eat as anyone else at that table did. Just because that's the way it's been done and servants are made to feel inferior, it doesn't mean that they don't deserve to be treated respectfully.
I agree with Faisal, that's how I've seen it being done as well.