Re: disturbed coz of husband’s behaviour
Seriously. I don’t know why people stick around in abusive relationships. There is absolutely no excuse for that.
Everything I say in the next few sentences is the truth.
- A man who disrespects his wife constantly will NEVER respect her at a future point in time. He will never ever appreciate you constantly; troughs and crests will be your life.
- A man who acts like that will only stick to the marriage so he can show others he isn’t unfaithful, a horrible husband or a weak human being. Plenty of Asians are like that.
- You are better off leaving this man and moving on with your life. If you aren’t pregnant you have to bail. If you are and you can still bail, do it. You have lots of thinking to do.
- Have a discussion with him, straight up, no mind games from either partner. Lay down what your issues are and how both of you can tackle them. You both have to compromise.
P.S. Finally, your view that Balochis think that a woman is a shoe is racist. By that logic men from every race think the same. We just have different standards of sexism you know. Sure our cultures a bit slow to adapt to the new standards of gender equality but to remind you, we’ve had sexism around for a long time.
Now you’ll say Hey! That was a long time ago! But guess what, the sexism has just evolved into more subtle and under the radar forms in Western societies. At least Asians are still up front about it. But I’m sure the attitudes are changing.
/rant