Re: disturbed coz of husband’s behaviour
Nobody …not your loser husband…not a single member from your susraal can stop you from visiting your own parents. That’s a really low thing to do. While your husband is messed up…I also think that YOU (SanaDubai) would be partly to blame if you keep seeking his permission for every little thing. There are some things…basic things…that one doesn’t need approval for. If you seek approval often enough…you’ll eventually relinquish your power and lose respect in the process.
Your mother’s home is only 15 minutes away…so go by yourself. Inform your in-laws in advance…and then go. Or get someone from your mom’s house to pick you up. Your husband just wants to see you beg and plead and cry in front of him to take you to your ammi’s home…when really…you’re not a choti bachi and you can go there by yourself. ***Now, if your husband has an issue because you’re spending more time with your parents compared to him, etc…then you need to work on striking a balance. Still…it’s isn’t justification for him to threaten divorce over something like this. Out of all the forms of abuse that I read and hear about…preventing a spouse from visiting their parent is the one that gets under my skin the most.