Disrespectful in laws

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Re: Disrespectful in laws

@khattichic

1. your Inlaws are not social people–you already know this, so what?

2. the nikkah is hosted by YOUR parents, why the heck would your mil be expected to receive guests :smack:

3. why do your Inlaws have to call and chit chat with your parents needlessly if it’s not in their nature to do so? So you all fight more? So you’ll have more stuff to complain and worry about?

This is probably going to come off as slightly rude and very blunt, but here goes…do you have some sort of reading comprehension problem or are you just dense?

Thread after thread you post about how awful your in laws are, how stingy, how close minded…blah, blah, blah…let me ask, what do YOU bring to the table? Khud koinsee hoor-parri ho? You keep making mountains out of molehills, if this family is so awful why the heck are you marrying into them? God knows they will not change after your ruhksati.

In all your threads and dhuk bharri dastaans, you are given the same advice over and over again, but it all falls on deaf ears. Maybe you are just out to raise the post count on the forums..in that case, thank you :salute:

There are women out their who genuinely get the short end of the stick when they enter into arranged marriages with unknown factors and have to deal with all sorts of unpleasantness…you are not one of these people. You are going into this marriage eyes wide open with all the cards laid out on the table, and obviously there is SOMETHING (God only knows what) that is making it all worthwhile. Please, do yourself a favor and stop with this rona-dhona over every perceived insult and disgrace. You have a lot of growing up to do, shaadi gudda-guddi’on ka khel nahin hai :chai:

I feel like giving khatti a snickers bar, coz you are not you when you are…