Re: Disrespectful in laws
Yes I’m already aware of their personality.. But since they’ve made effort for others I thought it would be nice if they spent a bit if time with mine. I’ll be moving in their house and it would feel odd if I never invite my parents or that my parents never visit? They should be able to visit me freely. Isn’t that correct?
My nikkah was in two parts. Lunch hosted by us because they insisted they wanted to do the dinner. They didn’t greet relatives and my family on dinner.
No I don’t need reasons to fight. Simply want my family to be more comfortable. Esp cause they’re giving me away to them.. They’ll be happier if they knew them a bit? Like in a comfortable way.
The rest of the questions that you asked.. I think you’re losing your temper without any grounds. I do have issues.. But I wouldn’t marry because of these petty issues? I’m sure you’re married and have an idea. I’m not calling them horrible but most in laws do such Stuff. Should everyone break off their marriage? I’m here on this forum wo I can take advice. Because I’m unable to discuss it with anyone.
Btw what do I bring on the table? I think I bring alot. I’m way above average looking. Their son was going nuts after me. I’m a a grade student. I own a business and earn alot. I’m also very close to Allah. I prefer to pray and ask for solutions but I can’t get answers. I have loved my in laws alot. They still give my examples because I’m always smiling and happy but it doesn’t mean I don’t get hurt.
Lady, you don’t need to convince me of how great you are lol, when I asked what you brought to the table, it was a rhetorical question
Obviously, the way you process and internalize things is not working that great for you, and if you continue to be so defensive, whatever real advice you get will continue to fall on deaf ears I’m sure.
Oh, and losing my temper?! Over you??? LOL!!!
Why would I lose my marbles over a total stranger that has no impact on my life?
The only thing I’ll give you credit for is admitting that you have a lot of growing up to do…best of luck!
