Re: Disrespectful in laws
A lot of things would be nice but that doesn’t mean they’re going to happen. You know the specific behind why they made efforts for other do you?
If your in-laws paid for and organized a nikah dinner, then yes, I agree they should have greeted everyone.
Of course your parents and friends should be able to visit you. However, since you’re moving into their house, you will need to conform to their rules. This is a conversation you need to have with your husband BEFORE moving him. You need to ask your husband what his parents expectations are when it comes to YOU inviting guests over including your parents. Can you invite your parents whenever you want or do you need to ask permission…Ask your husband.
Of course, keep in mind that if your parents are coming to visit YOU b/c YOU invited them…then do not expect in-laws to play “host”. I don’t think anything will prevent you from seeing/spending time with your parents. But don’t set yourself up for disappointment and arguments by expecting your in-laws to change their personality.