Re: Disrespectful in laws
You already know that this is a flaw in your in-laws personality. They are not behaving in this manner towards your parents only. This is their personality and NOTHING you or anyone else says will change that. Don’t waste your time being upset over things that you can’t control.
Yes you can tell your in-laws how you feel. But that will not change how they behave. The only thing that will result is that your in-laws will get upset with you and I assume your husband also won’t be happy that you upset his parents. So control your emotions and use your brain to deal with this situation. The smart thing to do is to let your parents know that your in-laws are like this with other people including their siblings so it’s nothing against your parents specifically.
BTW, did your mother/father not host your nikah function? It’s the job of the hosts to receive the guests. Was the nikah hosted by your in-laws?