Have you ever met someone you just didn’t like but didn’t know why? Something just didnt rub you the right way but you cant quite put a finger on it… intuition, perhaps? Im a firm believer in trusting your gut instinct and more often than not the reason for that initial dislike was made clear as day by the other person’s actions.
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no ..i never dislike someone without any reason...but the person i ever disliked was my best friend....but there was a reason behind it...
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mostly when i dislike someone intitially even though if i get friends with them later on they prove my first impressions true after a while.
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actually I found the first impression is the last impression saying, not such a true one
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^ Really? Sometimes my first impression of someone will be really good only to find out later that they’re the complete opposites. But if and when I’ve ever happened to get that red flag in my mind about a person on the first meeting, it’s proven to be mostly true. 
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I agree with you, I also goof up in the earlier case where I think that the person is good but he turned out to be not so good ..vs when I meet someone who does not appear so good and it turns out to the case ...
I think that the main reason is, not many people put a facade on purpose where they look bad so if badness is obvious, they got to be like that ..
on the other hand, people are master of presenting themselves to be nice and we believe them cause we dont have any reason not to believe (after all its our first meeting, what is there not to believe), later on we find out that it was all an act
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I tend to like people very quickly only to find our later that I overreacted 
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^^ I think that is a normal human nature niks .. that is pretty much what I wanted to say but you summed it up in one sentence
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Aww niki i think im the same way. I tend to always believe in the good in people when sometimes it never even exists
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Maybe it's good in a way because on the other hand, some people are way too skeptical about everything. They judge your every gesture, comment or action and are always suspicious.
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Whoever thinks all humans are essentially GOOD raise your hands:AID:
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well if you dont like a person, there is no question to meet him / her at all.
Whoever thinks all humans are essentially GOOD raise your hands:AID:
HUmans are good, but there habbits and nature make them differ from one another.
well if you dont like a person, there is no question to meet him / her at all.
how can you form an opinion about someone even before meeting the person
people who boast about themselves upon meeting you are always found to be losers-by me at least
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Skittlez why is it that I ALWAYS or almost ALWAYS hear this "i did not like you but not that I know you I like you" or "i thought you were weird when I did not know you but have come to know your such a nice person!"
???
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It happens sometimes. Those "psychic readers" call it negative energy and I call it sharp sixth sense. We, no matter how hard we try, always give away this particular negative aspect of our personalities; and that can be picked by other people.
Maybe it's good in a way because on the other hand, some people are way too skeptical about everything. They judge your every gesture, comment or action and are always suspicious.
yeah ..and this can sometimes unfortunately lead to self fulfilling prophecy
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Hmmm.. I don't always get the right first impressions with people I've met.. and people usually don't get an accurate impression of me when they meet me as I'm usually shy and do not open up etc. So I don't completely believe in first impressions.. however I don't always "dislike" people on a general basis when I first meet them.. but when it does happen, it's usually for a pretty valid reason (like someone showing off a bit tooo much, someone putting others down etc).. so I keep a distance. Usually, my dislike for these people turns out to be reasonable lol.. :D