arzoo i dont know u or ur situation so cant say anything. but ppl who see things from childhood r diff from those who get them afterwards. if u are exactly as u said then u r blessed n so r ur parents to hav a child like u.
n ur aunt u see her as 35 may b she doesnt see it that way. for her shes a newly married girl, new mom,new life, new responsibilities... older ppl find it hard to control feelings sometimes when they r over whelmed. how old is her kid? new moms sometimes go thru depressions when ppl around them don't understand them.. kisi ko uper se judge mat kero k shadi ho gayi, rich fam mil gayee, nauker rekh liay tu dimagh charh gaya. it could b true n then it could b much deeper than that. u never know.
when i was ur age i saw things differently. now i'm older i see things n ppl differently.with time ur prospects n way of looking at pictures will change too.
I guess Aarzoo point is that a 35 years old lady should show some maturity and responsiblity.
One more thing, she should be thankful that she got married in this age to a person who is wealthy and seems to be with senses too. Why to destroy your home and marriage life on petty things.
And i dont agree to a 10 yrs old nanny. If you are so worried about your child brought up then bring in some mature experienced and educated nanny and not a 10 yrs old kid who herself is a kid n knows nothing.
I guess Aarzoo point is that a 35 years old lady should show some maturity and responsiblity.
One more thing, she should be thankful that she got married in this age to a person who is wealthy and seems to be with senses too. Why to destroy your home and marriage life on petty things.
And i dont agree to a 10 yrs old nanny. If you are so worried about your child brought up then bring in some mature experienced and educated nanny and not a 10 yrs old kid who herself is a kid n knows nothing.
FT she married to a guy who is 50, 15 yrs older to her. so wat if he has money. shes not married to a guy her age n that is not a small thing. is that guy remarried or something does he hav other kids too?
She accepted the guy with his age..thats all matters. Majboori mein kiya aur merzi se. The thing is she is married now and 35 is not a kiddo. She should show maturity.
And i m getting Aarzoo;s point.. all what has pissed off her or will piss off any is her attitude. But well we cannot do anything about it. Age is not gurantee of anyone's maturity. some ppl gain maturity in very young age and some older ppl will always act like a small stubborn kid.
I find it utterly disgusting when someone married into a wealthy family and starts pretending to be different. You forget what you were before you were married. I feel like slapping them stupid. Hello! who the hell are you kidding? I know what you were 3 years ago. Why are you pretending to be something you are not?
This relative ( from Pakistan) of mine who's about 35- 36 years old got married 3 years ago. I understand why people over there would 2 change their age on their id cards and stuff because if you are 34 not many people would want to marry you. So she became young for the world. Her husband is quite a wealthy man and is in his early 50s. She won't look after her own kid. I was at her place a few months ago and the maid ( 10 year old girl)was ordered to sit down and eat with them by the husband. The wife started throwing a tantrum, she went in a huff and ran inside. She wouldn't come back out to eat with everyone. I just cannot understand why cannot people look after their kids? He's your child, you chose to have him. So what if you have to keep him weith you while you eat? Did you mum have maids for you? NO! You did the cooking, you did the dishes. You come from a bug family with 6 other siblings. Why the hell do you compalin for?
The husband is against treating their servants differently so he told her " if you are going to do this to her. I'm sending her back home the next morning". The wife's response: " If you send her back. I'm going to kick all the otehr servants out".
People in Europe bring up 4 kids on their own. Do they throw tantrums? NO! You are a mature 35 year old woman. It's not as if you're in your early 20s and you're having difficulties with teh child. You brought me up man! There's no excuse at all of not having any experience with kids and all.
I must say women in Pakistan have an easy life. Some of them are spoilt. No matter where you go, you should not forget where YOU came from. Fair enough if you came from a family where you did not do anything but throwing tantrums is just disgusting.
He believes in treating his workers like equals yet he "ORDERED" her to sit down and eat with them?
i think this spoilt brat needs to be chucked into reality to see what lives really like and how hard it is for people out there who are bring up kids single handedly with hardly any money and taking each day as it comes!
i'm not bothered about having a maid. I was brought up by one too.
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*People in Europe bring up 4 kids on their own. Do they throw tantrums? NO! **You are a mature 35 year old woman. It's not as if you're in your early 20s and you're having difficulties with teh child. You brought me up man! There's no excuse at all of not having any experience with kids and all.
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** I must say women in Pakistan have an easy life. Some of them are spoilt. No matter where you go, you should not forget where YOU came from. Fair enough if you came from a family where you did not do anything but throwing tantrums is just disgusting.
You seem to have a contempt for Pakistani women in general.