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this happens with lots of ppl, combined with crazy hormones its a recipe for disaster
calm down, parents are just worried for you, trust me, take it in your stride, dont let it get to you, show them your made of better stuff,
they are desi, they want to know they can control your actions that you will never turn against them no matter what, its a tradition only you can break with your own kids
remember this could be a lesson for you, not to do this when you are older, in your own family, just be patient, i know its not as easy as it sounds, but trust me its the best thing to do, and dont wish for something like that, its not good at all
brov' it heat of the moment, u r angry, u feel left out so u r coming to these conclusions, don't worry about it too much things will be f9 as u mature in life
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agreed with luc abt the heat of the mo
take a walk/swim/jog and drink something cool
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You ABCD wannabe you :p
Are you in your teens?
P.S. This is neither a sarcastic comment nor a stereotype. I just think it may help a lot of us with our responses.
underthecross I totally agree with you, I still do wish sometimes that I was dead :) intresting ain't it. Parents want you to do everything as they ask, but if only once you go the other way, the trust is gone, and you are no longer that loyal sweet kid. I blame the culture, I just can't stand a lot of things, when you question something, there is no ans, except a list of ****ty talk. sorry for my lingu, but sometimes I hate being asian, its friggin pain in ass.
awww, … bless you. 
Have you tried talking to your parents about how you feel? There may be lack of communication which is what is leading you to your conclusions. Ask them calmly why they look disappointed when they see you and tell them how you feel.
Yeah I agree this is pretty typical for teens and parents. I remember when I was younger, being the oldest and only daughter, I had the most responsibility and rules on me. My youngest brother was the most loved. I always felt like I was a burden for them and my brothers were their investment. So i was alway pushed to the side, in my room, reading, painting, in my own head, invisible. It's not just a desi thing, well partly, but parents need to realize that their daughters will be there for them more than their sons when they get old. I think now my parents are realizing their mistake.When sons are given too much freedom and advantage and daughter is just given alot of housework, it's bad.
In retrospect I wish I had talked to my parents about the unfairness, but would it really have changed anything? I don't know. You don't know until you try. Don't think you don't deserve better, because you do. Teen years just suck. So try to make it a little easier on yourself.
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Well, unless you plan to commit the act yourself, you may as well endure as best you can. If you can't, try talking to them about it. If that doesn't help, you prolly have your own place somewhere else.
Why not move out and get your own place. You are 33. You should be established enough to do that.
At 33 you're still dependent on your dad? No wonder why you get treated the way you are. And you call yourself "mature". Didnt you know "being mature" includes to know how to take care of (atleast) yourself (and others). And you're a man too. Im not amazed at your condition. Prove yourself to them. If you think you're mature then PROVE it to them. Dont just keep boasting for nothing. What is it that you have accomplished at 33 that makes you think that you are mistreated by your family? Tell me what have you accomplished?
I am a girl. At 21, I was able to support myself without the help of my father. During my teens I was considered to be immatured by my dad and mom and I admit that I was. But that was long time ago, I proved to them by my actions that I was growing to be a mature, sensible adult who knows how to take care of herself and even others if needed.
I am 27 now and been living a completely independent life for last two years. I support myself. I live alone. My paents and family are happy with me. I have all of their "duas" with me. It's because they know that I deserve it.
Make yourself one who can be admired, appreciated. Things would be on your side. 33 but you still have time. So act NOW!!!