Disease of Jelousy

recently, somebody very jealous tried very hard to have something go very wrong.
of course, Almighty is over looking us all, it so happened that individual got trapped in own set up trap.

what re the precise tell tale signs of someone jealous around you or seeing you from a distance, only to wish something bad happens to you.

my defense: pray all kul.
share your thoughts around this, if you like.

best,
Dushwari

Re: Disease of Jelousy

There are not many visible signs of jealousy except the type of behaviour or words people utter... Childish, hateful, and annoying behaviour and words are the main symptoms though there is a very fine line in such case between a jealous person or the one who seeks Justice from otherwise Unjust situation. People should know the context and background of the whole situation before terming something jealousy or fight of the right.

Jealousy is the disease of hearts and we should ask protection of Allah from it.

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LOl, everyone will have a few tales to tell relating this topic :cb:

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good call, AQ. makes sense.
mama ke dua, you are right on too. wish you well, in studies.
education is that ornament which women always should have on. :>

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Jealousy can sometimes ruin your life...I have seen quite a few people who were never satisfied with their lives and kept comparing themselves to others and were finally left with nothing in their lives to hold onto...no love, no relationships

I always pray that Allah mian keeps us away from jealousy and jealous ppl...

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that is so sad but that is true.

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quite frankly, jealousy occurs in people who are insecure with themselves. and that insecurity might not be fully their own fault. friends, family members and others around them might have conributed to that low self esteem. my aunt bought me a book from india which has amazing duas for every single moment in your life and the remedy for jealousy is: to praise, honor and love the person you are jealous of (no matter how difficult it may be) read surah al falak:

I seek refuge with Allah the lord of the daybreak from the evil of what he has created and from the evil of the darkening night as it darkens and when the moon goes away and from the evil of those who practice witchcraft by blowing on knot and from the evil of the envier when he envies.

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Jealousy is what makes a woman inferior to a man.

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Ahem rukayain zara abhi main apni team ko boltai hoon yahan par :snooty:

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u think that men r not jealous???:hmmm:

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Exactly!