I dont know about other people family but in my family know one sat me down and talked ot me about sex..i just found out from here and there and school and friends whatever. But if I am having an arranged marriage ..is someone going to talk to me about it??? Like has anyone ever had a discussion regarding their suhaag raat or like what to expect before they got married. Or am i supposed to figure it out none my own.
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I never had a discussion either but I remember the night before my wedding, my mom sat me down and told me that I have to meet my hubby's wishes in bed all the time. If he wants to do it, then dont push him away unless you are sick or have period.
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^^ haha I think all mom's give that advice.
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isnt it awkward though????
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I am sure that some elder/married lady of your family is going to talk to you about it
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Most desi moms dont say a word and they're proud of it too :D
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Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww I would never want my mom telling me all those things .. 
Sorry but No thanks.. I think I know wat will happen to me in there 
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omg no one ever told me anything i think lthey knew that living in the UK i would surely know everything plus we had love marriage so everyting was discussed between us before.
flesh meets flesh
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I have heard of a brother giving advice to his BIL. Now remember this girl who was getting married to this guy had 7 brothers . So the eldest tells BIL.
"Man, look we love our sister and have taken good care of her and we cannot stand if some one mistreats her."
This poor guy gets scared and says: " Sir do not worry I will treat your sister as my sister."
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^ hahahahahaha 
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^^^ LoL, poor guy must have been scared
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in the end of the day, after 20 + years, both look like brother and sister anyway, so no wonder...
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lol...
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haha thats funny..yah i think it would be awkward if my mom came and told me! and i live in canada so i guess she knows i know