i'd talk to my fianice about hardcore Japanese porn!
pendo likes tentacles :/
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I will add something here, your fiance is still your namehram so be careful in how far you guys go discussing intimate things. I was engaged once and it didnt work out and when it broke off, i felt so horrible thinking that i was so openly talking to someone who was not my husband in the end. And we hadnt even ever talked about intimacy, it was just day to day talking. I would have just about died if we had gone that far.
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If you are not comfortable, Dont.
He is your fiance and will be hubby one day. So kahin bhaaga nahin jaa raha. And yes some men do not like such kind of talk. May be ur fiance is one of that kind. Coz if he was not then prolly he would have brought you to discuss these subjects himself.
Well,
I can discuss everything with mine. It depends how close your relationship is i think, because she happens to be my best friend as well.
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My nikkah was over a year ago but the wedding isnt until March 2010, but we are very open with each other and share and discussion everything...he's my bestfriend and i wouldnt want it any other way.... if im sad i look to him, happy with good news i share first with him....
even before the nikkah we were engaged for 2 years and we discussed all issues...if anything it helps prevent problems in the future.
for example...i am born and raised outside in Canada whereas my fiance is born and raised from pakistan.....i met him in pakistan while visiting and fell in love...but there is a cultural difference and in the beginning he would say to me why do u do this and that but after some time he got a chance to get use to it and now all the issues that seemed so big in the beginning are nothing now.....
OMG thats how i am :)… i actually tell him just deal with it cuz its that time of the month :Dhe is great abt it too 
anyways i think u shld bring it up randomly (stuff abt kids and things) there is nothing wrong with that.
and tell him that ur not fasting…if he ask "why not’ just say u cant…he will understand and that will be a start for being a little more open.
OMG thats how i am :)... i actually tell him just deal with it cuz its that time of the month :Dhe is great abt it too :D
anyways i think u shld bring it up randomly (stuff abt kids and things) there is nothing wrong with that. and tell him that ur not fasting...if he ask "why not' just say u cant...he will understand and that will be a start for being a little more open.
lol....maybe its a pakistani culture thing....but mine didnt even know wht the monthly cycle was...i was soo shocked and speechless.....i guess its alot more open overseas...not that we talk about it...but i guess becoz we have health class and tv shows that openly talk about it....but i've visited pakistan and their more modern on certain things but i guess some issues will always remain sensitive.....
Mine yelled at me the first time...lol....i wasnt fasting and he asked me if i had already finished my prayers and i quietly said no and he gave me an 1 hour long lecture about why i didnt pray and my only response was i cant...and he was like yyyyyy? and my cousin in pakistan was just watch us laughing cause she knew i couldnt clearly say out loud for all to hear y i wasnt...lol...it makes me laugh now when i think about it now but than not so much..lol...
now he kinda figures it out when i start crying out of no where and fight for no reason...lol....
look yea, don’t try and make a connection between hentai and anime you weirdo.
i only watch studio ghibli offerings now.
gundam, cowboy bebop etc etc back in the day.
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^ lol sure like you saw tentacles in cowboy bebop yeah! ahahahaha!:D
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^cough shifty eyes
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Is dhere a need to talk about it?
I thought it was suppose to be all action only 
what do you want to talk with him about it?
please tell 'o 
I will add something here, your fiance is still your namehram so be careful in how far you guys go discussing intimate things. I was engaged once and it didnt work out and when it broke off, i felt so horrible thinking that i was so openly talking to someone who was not my husband in the end. And we hadnt even ever talked about intimacy, it was just day to day talking. I would have just about died if we had gone that far.
I agree.. wouldnt feel good at all!
^cough shifty eyes
My Thoughts exactly!
And not all guys know about monthly cycles.. and its not a bad idea for them to know. Makes things a little easier.
i agreeee....i had to explain this to my fiance just this mornign why i wasnt fasting..he was like y arent u and i was like well girls cant always fast and to my shock he was clueless soooo i had to explain it to him...lol...it was kinda weird...but i explained pms..and he was like ooooh it all makes sense..the anger the crying...but then he was like so was that u talking or the pms and i was like welll it was me but the emotions are a bit...more during pms...btw fiance is born n raised in pak ///
but i mean wev discussed children..i mean if ur going to get married y not i mean u need to know when ur partner wants children..and wev discussed baby names maybe thts a step too far but i dont know...i mean...