Re: Discouraging Individuality
Har koi dekho tho, is telling you "oh don't do that, you wont be a good mom"; "oh, don't do that, you wont make as much money"; "oh don't do that, that's not what good people do", and nevermind the fact that whatever you want to do is perfectly halaal. "Oh don't do this or don't say that, because laug kya kaheinge".
I mean what the hell? I have yet to really see desi unification on encouraging our upcoming generation to do the best they can in whatever they endeavor to do in their lives. Self-fulfillment is really NOT haraam. Especially, if everyone went out and lived their dream, it would be more beneficial for our community than the present manner of materialistic jaahil type of living that Pakistanis do.
PCG just let them be, and be polite and smile and then do what you want to do.