Disciplining Children

time out chair, she will never sit. so there is a time out room.trouble with time out routine is that i worry about leavin her in a room. my husband sends me on a guilt trip that she gets scared, she appears to hate it ,cries her lungs out in 1 minute. but the lights are on and her toys are all over and she is not the least bit interested. it tames her a bit but i worry sometimes if it is such a good idea?