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[system]

Re: disappointed

How do you equate pics of ASh and whomever to porn? This is the kind of stupidity that gets people committed

[KAKA-ATOM-BUM]

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i have a pic of a puppy on my desktop....
I hope its a male :( warna main to gaya kaam say :(

[CM]

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@Destinee

So for you a man is not a man until he watches a bunch of naked ass ladies and men having all kinds of sex like crazy animals? Interesting.

It was a sarcastic comment. Sheesh…

[rally]

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@lussi

dis here iz total bull****. Porn fo’ men iz like uh rite o’ passage. No boy becomes uh man until he has seen some pimp-tight double penetration.
Also wiff porn uh brotha iz bettah able ta dig’ da beotch body an’ how ta bomb leverage it fo’ uh ho’s pleasure. So uh major reason fo’ such porn viewing iz uh brotha’s selflessness ta bettah cater ta his ho’s needs…nomesayn..

Homie you tell’em!

[KAKA-ATOM-BUM]

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yaar irem, i dunno, u make me smile.

ease up woman! itni tension na lo… theres other better things to be disappointed of! thora standard improve karo.

itni tough selection!!!

baba, tum to acchay bhallon ko bhi dozakhi bana kay choro gee… meray jaisay to direct flight say jayen gay

let me tell u. there are a lot of decent guys out there, but ur definition of decent needs to be changed, cos honestly, that wont leave many decent people behind, if any. cos no ones perfect.

[Code_Red]

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I don't think anyone got to the crux of this particular observation...

And unjustly turned discussion into Porn--><--Guys.

Here if you read the first post it clearly says that it was ** workplace computer viewable to everyon*. So, in that place where **young ladies work too*(who are mostly very decent and religious and all). It is very un-appropriate, un-wise to choose a screen saver which shows pictures of female film actresses.

As you all know, that these pics may be G-rated but show a lot of skin.
Imagine a situation, The guy is explaining some logical design on paper to female colleague, and in background the screan saver starts showing these pics !

I dont know about anyone, If I am the guy, I will feel quite awkward. ( Remember this is Pakistan, Guys have some sharam haya too )

If I see my colleague doing this in office, where female visit the area, I will definitely advise him to change, simply cuz* acha nahi lagta. *

But, this behavoir will not cause an iota of difference on his decency in my eyes

[Rukhsarbibi]

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Irem, you want everyone to be a saint :p

There is nothing wrong with having pics of celebrities on your desktop or as screensavers yaar

[Faisal]

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@Code_Red

I don’t think anyone got to the crux of this particular observation…

And unjustly turned discussion into Porn–><–Guys.

Yup, I agree. I don’t know whose bright idea was it to turn discussion into porn movies.

@Code_Red

Here if you read the first post it clearly says that it was workplace computer viewable to everyon. So, in that place where young ladies work too(who are mostly very decent and religious and all). It is very un-appropriate, un-wise to choose a screen saver which shows pictures of female film actresses.

As you all know, that these pics may be G-rated but show a lot of skin.
Imagine a situation, The guy is explaining some logical design on paper to female colleague, and in background the screan saver starts showing these pics !

I dont know about anyone, If I am the guy, I will feel quite awkward. ( Remember this is Pakistan, Guys have some sharam haya too )

If I see my colleague doing this in office, where female visit the area, I will definitely advise him to change, simply cuz* acha nahi lagta. *

Let me get this straight, though. Lets say a girl is explaining some logical design on paper to her male collegue, and in the background the screen saver starts showing pics of Salman Khan, Shah Rukh Khan and David Beckham… do you think the male collegue will be *sharminda *and awkward, or will he smile, make a comment or so and then re-focus on the logic design on the paper?

Assuming the pics are not R-rated, ofcourse.

@Code_Red

But, this behavoir will not cause an iota of difference on his decency in my eyes

Thats the spirit.

[Code_Red]

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First it was guy’s computer and he was getting sharmida and feeling akward…

Now, in your case its girl’s computer, so its her trun to feel akward. Ab larkey itney Farigh bhi nahi hotey ke dosroon ki jagah sharminda hotey phirain

waisey, Irem type ki larki sharam se paani paani ho gai gi. Baqeeon ka pata nahi.

There is difference in guys and girls. Some joke may be funny as hell, but telling it in presence of girls is bad bad idea

For example…

there was a major saab, who came home unusually early . His beautiful wife was working in kitchen. So he thought of giving her a surprise, he reached behind her quitely and put his hands on her eyes. He did not say a word for few seconds…

The wife said in relaxed manner " Abdul ! ab Bas bhi karo ! tumharey sahab aney waley hian"

[Faisal]

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@Code_Red

First it was guy’s computer and he was getting sharmida and feeling akward…

Now, in your case its girl’s computer, so its her trun to feel akward. Ab larkey itney Farigh bhi nahi hotey ke dosroon ki jagah sharminda hotey phirain

*Iss case mein, *guy tau koi khaas sharminda nahi hua. Why is it that only girls have to feel *sharminda *and awkward. Hain? Hain? Hain?

Waisay, earlier you said “Remember this is Pakistan, Guys have some sharam haya too”. Ab kidher gayee sharam?

@Code_Red

There is difference in guys and girls.

Yeah, there is. Will remain. But girls *ko bhi choti choti cheezein mind nahi karni chahiyein. Zindagi mushkil karnay ki kiya zaroorat hai. Aur bari prablems hein life mein. Uss kakay ki *Aish say aap ko kiya takleef?

[Code_Red]

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How can you say girl is more sharmida than guy ? App ke paas sharmindagi naampney ki device hai

All I said was

@Code_Red

I dont know about anyone, If I am the guy, I will feel quite awkward. ( Remember this is Pakistan, Guys have some sharam haya too )

Both guy and girl will be equally sharminda

larki apni jooki se carpet main soraakh karney ki koshish karey gi
Our larka ulluon ki tarhaa idhar udhar dekhna shoro kardey ga

Yeah, there is. Will remain. But girls *ko bhi choti choti cheezein mind nahi karni chahiyein. Zindagi mushkil karnay ki kiya zaroorat hai. Aur bari prablems hein life mein. Uss kakay ki **Aish say aap ko kiya takleef?

Takleef hai na. Aish mujhey bhi bohat pasand hai. Bachpan se

[Mal1k]

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@lussi

dis here iz total bull****. Porn fo’ men iz like uh rite o’ passage. No boy becomes uh man until he has seen some pimp-tight double penetration.
Also wiff porn uh brotha iz bettah able ta dig’ da beotch body an’ how ta bomb leverage it fo’ uh ho’s pleasure. So uh major reason fo’ such porn viewing iz uh brotha’s selflessness ta bettah cater ta his ho’s needs…nomesayn..

your holiness, ur our leader, we nominate u for being da bad man, with a love for da lesbos.

Porn to men is like candy to a child, u cannot keep it away from us.

PS I love snoop doggy dog, & his famous lyrics for doggy style, they are cool…nomesayn

[Faisal]

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mal1k bao, aap ki tau pitai honay vali hai.

@Code_Red

Both guy and girl will be equally sharminda

larki apni jooki se carpet main soraakh karney ki koshish karey gi
Our larka ulluon ki tarhaa idhar udhar dekhna shoro kardey ga

I don’t think ke larka koi khaas sharminda ho ga, on seeing pics of Sallu or SRK or whoever. But I defer to your experience.

@Code_Red

Takleef hai na. Aish mujhey bhi bohat pasand hai. Bachpan se

Masha Allah.

[system]

Re: disappointed

How come pakistani girls I know are not as naiive as Irem? Is Irem the norm?

[Faisal]

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There is no norm. Its all relative.

[system]

Re: disappointed

Actually there is a norm, that is why it is called a norm otherwise there are sanitariums.

[Goliko]

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@irem

khair…i turned 23 this sept..

ab khush?

khair…You sound like a 32 year old mom…
ab khush?

[Sohaib]

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Expect Irem's threads to go well beyond the expected number of posts :D

[Wise_One]

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i think code had a very decent point. would be awkward as hell.

[Moodie_Foodie]

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hun, i dont think ur standard of decentness exist or ure veryyyyyyyyyy naive.. I odnt think things liek these should matter to determine how holy is the person.. everyone looks.. heck im postin pics of men in images sometimes n dedicate threads just as well, but if someone called me indecent, id be hurt, offended n then punch thier lights out.. lol.l ok maybe not that drastic, but there's more to a person's holiness than that.