What kinds of restrictions are they? Some freedoms can be damaging to others.
If the restrictions are being placed often upon basic/reasonable things.....if you find yourself stifled/controlled.....then does that person REALLY/TRULY love you? You can't have love without respect. And in this case....why should I stick around in the relationship...especially if you've tried to make things work and they're only getting worse? Leave the relationship.....and get back not only your independence, but peace of mind and respect as well.
(just as an example) there are many things here ... one you have no clue what to wear when so your husband tells u, or your husband likes you in purple and not red so he tell u OR your husband is totally messed up in the head and why in the world did you marry him in the first place ...
for all the three mentioned above, you cannot put them in the same pool and go all judgemental
sweets since you’ve already broken up with him then you must have known that it was not going to work out. you got a chance to know his nature better than anybody here. i think when we start threads here with a dilemma we already know what the answer is and for you it was to get away from this guy. as long as you’re happy now and you don’t feel trapped/suffocated. good luck with your life and i’m sure you’ll find somebody much better that gives you the freedom you need/deserve and want and still be loved. is that too much to ask…I don’t think so
yes i had known the guy for 7 yrs!!!!!!!!!!! we did have happy moments but it was always i told u to do this u didnt listen u didnt do this u didnt that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sooo i gave up...i tried to put up with it and make it work for a veryy long timee...(its not like i didnt try or my independence was more precious to me than him but it went to the point of him saying " tum mere dil se utar gayi ho"
so it was better to walk away!!
