Re: dillema
Firstly, if I were in your position, I would’ve done the same exact thing!
As for whether or not you did the right thing…here are my thoughts on that: Marriage is difficult enough to begin with. If you already had a problem with him trying to control those things BEFORE marriage…then obviously you did not feel “compatible” with him (no matter how much “love” there was). I’m a big believer in trusting your instincts. And if something just did not “feel right” to you about marrying this guy…then you need to trust your gut feelings and not take such a major risk with your life. 