So I was talking to this girl from GS and we seemed to hit it off really nice and I thought well give her a chance and see how it goes, but I guess you never know until you get into nitty gritty stuff ey.. so every time we spoke to each other, her topic was always Bollywood, fashion, clothes, makeup, jewelery.. at first I let it go thinking that’s her thang why should it bother me.. but it’s really getting boring now especially when I want to discuss something serious and meaningful but it turns out to be a joke.. So very politely I told her to go on her own separate way and lets pretend we never liked each other (in that sense) since we are completely black and white. Now she is phoning me back, texting me that I have dumped her and broke her heart for no reason. My question is what should I do since I don’t see my future with her nor do I want to see my future with her. I don’t know she will read this thread or not but if she does I hope she will get the idea that it’s not her which bothered me.. it was katrina, kareena, meera , reema who mean nothing to me bothered me much…
Has it ever happened to you that you liked someone from this site and ended up saying “tobah” not again?
if you dont care about her then simply ignore her phone calls/msgs etc etc.
She will get the msg.
But if you had really cared for her then this meera/katrina/kareena should not hv become an obstacle.
You would hv simply talked on other issues with time....would've taken time and effort from ur side but wasnt impossible.
So well she should get the msg now.
I do care for her as a human being, I hope she realises life is not just based on some artificial things.. she has to wake up or else she would remain oblivious.. nonetheless, I wasn't there to change her, I was there to understand her which I tried but found out not my gem..
I do care for her as a human being, I hope she realises life is not just based on some artificial things.. she has to wake up or else she would remain oblivious.. nonetheless, I wasn't there to change her, I was there to understand her which I tried but found out not my gem..
I do care for her as a human being, I hope she realises life is not just based on some artificial things.. she has to wake up or else she would remain oblivious.. nonetheless, I wasn't there to change her, I was there to understand her which I tried but found out not my gem..
one advice: from ur posts i have got the idea that u people are involved but still the bond is not that stronger as yet...right now, u have more sympathies with her as a human being rather than the love thing...if u have realized, things have not turned out the way u expected, just move on NOW...this is the time..once u people spend more time together, it will get much more difficult for u to step back...yes, she will get hurt, and u too but then this is going to be for some days, weeks or a month..but since u have realized she is not compatible in some way, the relation can never be an exciting one...
You leave her in enigma by moving on just like that. You need to wind it up in proper way. Talk to her and tell her you wanted a relationship but the compatibility is missing. She will be fine in a while like neha said.
just tell her the truth of wht bothered you.