will let u know how it goes guys, my sons gonna be 4 on friday IA and nephews gonna be 6.....IA all will be well.. i feel like a selfish cow....but the thing is she has done her sons party every year except for last year, and i have had no expectations from her...but this year my son wants a party with his friends which is why i am doing one, and everyone is expecting me to make it a joint party, so as not to hurt her feelings......i'm so frustrated and annoyed that i can't do what i want for my kids without anyone interfering
i need to calm down..............breath in...............breathe out................ ignore me guys i'm just letting off steam
Then do it next year, learn from this mistake and do not offer her again. If you do what you want now, you will nto only make yourself look bad, ull hurt ur sister. I doubt son will care, and even if he does-its not a tragedy and he'll get over it.