Asalaam Alikum---
Thank u everyone for your great responses-- Now the thing is-- after reading your advices- i talked to him last night and told him how i felt and i am really confused and so upset- i started to cry and hes like i cant see you cry- honestly people- mashallah he is such a wonderful person so sweet, loving caring and always there for me when i need him-- most guys wuld want so much from a relationship and we havent done anything bad- allah ka shukar hai- and i see him only once a week- he lives in new jersey and i live in Ny- so its hard for us to meet alot-
so i spoke to him about it and i said im stuck now- i dont know what to do because i do have rishtey left to right and i have to wait for u to b done after 2 yrs and i was crying while saying this to him- hes like you know what forget everything i said- if your parents are really setting you up and going into it then ill talk to my family and have a rishta sent over-- but i kno that hes going to have to fight for it bc his family is not ready for him to get married but he is- because he doesnt want to lose me and nor do i want to lose him-- god has really blessed me and has made him walk into my life and i am very thankful to him- and now i really cannot lose him
so im afraid his parents will not agree YET-- so i dont know hes really going to have to fight for it- and i dont want him to fall- i know hes strong and he wont give up easily- but i dont want either of our parents getting upset at us- u kno... but thank u everyone for ur help-- really appreciate it-!! i can always count on everyone here-- thanks soo much for understanding-- lets hope everything works out- keep me in ur prayers -- :(