Re: dilemma!
salz, the other thing you may want to keep in mind is his family... are they going to accept this relationship, what can he do for you, how much are you willing to sacrifice, and is it worth all of that?
I know a friend of my husband's. He was seeing a girl from another culture and religion. They both seemed to love each other and talked to their families. Hubby and I talked to them as well. The girl admitted that while she felt she couldn't live without the guy, she was not ready to give up her religious values for anything. Now they are both happily married to other people, have children and have moved on.
Reality comes with some surprises. In fact, your parents will never be prepared for this so their reaction will be unimaginable.
Are you even sure of the guy? Just because he says something doesn't mean he's willing to spend his entire life with you.