Re: dilemma!
sweetheart this decision will hurt you in the beginning but will keep you happier for the rest of your life.. so don't listen to your heart, family would never advice you wrong. the love of parents is unconditional.. mark my words honey, only they're the ones who will stand beside you whenever you need them and no one else. you're their dear child and that is the reason your father is being liberal and not putting restrictions on you to go out with anyone, please don't take their love for granted. if you listen to your parents and make them happy Allah Taala will reward you.. so just don't lose control - don't cry, trust your decision. believe that whatever happens, happens for good. alright sweety, we're all with you too.. share your problems and you'll always find some really sensible people advising good things to you. hope you concentrate more on your studies now and be an obedient daughter.