Dilemma

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I didnt know where to post this.

Here’s the situation.

Someone has been asking about my neighbor. He owes him some money. He was asking me when he is usually in and stuff like that. I told him evenings I guess. I also told him that I’ve heard someone else say the say thing about him (that he owes another guy money). I dont think I should have said that now.

Anyway, this guy seems to be pretty upset at my neighbor. He has hinted that there is going to be a problem if the next time he sees the guy he doesnt pay up.

So now I am in this dilemma. I asked the guy if I should tell my neighbor that he wants to speak to him about something. The guy said no, that he will take care of it.

So my thing is, do I speak to the neighbor? Do I tell him whats going on?

I dont know if this person means business or what he is capable of. But I also dont want to get caught in the middle. Like if I tell the neighbor, and the neighbor confronts the guy that hey SHE told me you are going around asking about me. Then THAT guy might get upset with me and feel I betrayed him. And I dont want him coming to my apartment confronting me about it.

This is just getting to me. Should I write an anonmymous letter and put it in his mailbox or slide it under his door or something? Something like “someone is looking for you, be careful and pay your debt”? I dunno.

Or should I mind my own business? But I feel bad for telling the guy that someone else told me something similar about him. Cause now hes gonna think this guy has done it more than once.

My neighbor is doing pre-med and I think hes around like 20 or something. He was nice to me once, he came over when I asked him for something once.

Oh goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! I need adviceeeeeeeeeee. smack

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hmmm I think you should send him an anonymous tips. but not handwritten...

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I'd say: Just mind you own business. There is no point in getting into it, when it is purely a matter between your neighbour and that guy.

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Well, you should not be giving any such info about your neighbour to anyone, if they have to find out they shud find it on their own. And i think just don't do any thing and stay out of it.

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Dont get involved...the guy has his debt to pay its his responsibility so let him deal with it...

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hmm u shudnt have discussed what u heard abt him with that stranger...but newayz now what u shud do is let yr neighbour know abt it...at most he wl get bit angry but u wl feel satisfied...writting a letter n all wl be 2 complicated...u only get in more trouble while going thru such means...

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depends who you're closer to.. the guy who was asking the questions or your neighbor.. If neither than the least you owe your neighbor is to let him know that someone was asking his whereabouts and tell him exactly what you told the other guy.

Keep it verbal.. no notes or write ups. If possible have a witness around and at all costs DO NOT go into what that guy said.. or this will go on and on.. just finish this right here.

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Thanks for the replies.

Here's the update:

I spoke to the other guy that he owed money to (not the one I wrote about initially) and he told me that he paid him back, so I am going to assume that he probably paid the other one too.

So I am not going to say anything now.

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