Re: dilemma.
dope :p is your mom getting gao ki gori for you :p
shweetz it honeslty matters at what age of life she is at. IF she is done with her masters i think she should get married now. PHD or second master can definately wait.
She will get duas of her in laws and they will definately help her. She can still stake 2 classes a semester and take care of in laws. As long as guy is willing to pay for all the expenses.
Now if she hasnt done her BS. most likely she wont finish it after shadi either. I see so many cases where in laws give girls tons of taney for going to school etc. When you are at a master level you are alot more professional and sometimes i feel can handle a situation better. [please keep in mind this does not apply to eveyrone ]