Re: Dilema?
I agree with you totally.
However that aside we all want some form of attraction in our partner and we appreciate thier looks, I mean my wife might not be a supermoddel but to me she is much better than any made up doll on TV. I would be driven mad if anything happened to her in the slightest, but I cant wrap her up in wool and all that…
If something changed in her and it was not just age related but something drastically different either by pure accident or by deliberate action by someone else then I might well feel as if something was lost… I dont think I would abandon her but I would be heartbroken… and perhaps the relationship would not have that magic anymore if you know what I mean, it would be the ultimate tragedy.
I know some examples of heart wrenching extremes… from people who were deeply in love spliting up at the slightest difference to a couple that fought the world and stayed together.