Re: --Dilema:
Here it is:)..Basically I have all sorts of friends which may be polar opposites to each other if put in a single group.What usually happens is when they meet each other maybe at my house or somewhere else…they dont get along and I end up taking the negative comments, opinions etc…I mean they just put me in the middle…trying to make me listen to their opinion of who ever they dont like.This has happened for so long and now Im actually sick of it..I have tried presenting the other person’s view point but that in turn makes some sensitive as to Im choosing sides.Any suggestions in trying to neutralize the situation.Again this has been going on since I was a teeny tiny tot in school:cb:…I cant be people’s refree all the time:crying:..and I dont want to choose one over the other.I believe each human has a different sort of understanding/relationship with another which cannot be compared with one another:)
I totally know what u r talking abt!!!One of my friends actually criticized every single of my friends in such a way that for a while it effected my opnion abt them and I even cut ties with some of them cuz of this person’s negative opinions about them…how silly I was!!
Now I dont mix ppl I know..