If there is a misunderstanding between you and a relative, supposedly an elder relative, who is quite respectable to you and you cant even imagine to be bad or harmful to them but they always have been speculative and underestimating your faithfulness, how long will you take this and what will you do about it? Like every other day someone tells you that ABC has this complaint against you or you did that thing unfair to the ABC. The worst since being, they always go indirect. And they do it customary. I said customary so you may not assume it happened first or second time so I should give them a chance and go clarify myself because they are elders and respectable. What when they are habitual and simply look for excuses or make one.
Re: Dil Ki Dil Mai?
depends on the everity of accusations. if it's serious enough to warrants an explanation and clarification then i would consider if they are genuine and sincere in their allegations and not being a knit picker. if i am satisfied, i will go and have a direct talk and explain to them ONCE only. if they continue persistently i will leave them alone and will NOT let it bother me. fair enuf?