Digging Up Graves

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Re: Digging Up Graves

@Southie

Both POVs have compelling points. This is a difficult one. Here is a question that can br posed to parents of future brides

If the prospective son in law was divorced, would you do due diligence to find out what happened?

My guess: answer would be a resounding yes.

Of course it would be yes and due diligence is a responsibility.

Divorced or not…you have to dig a little.

@PyariCgudia

Exactly. I’m sure it will get ugly, but if you find out that the guy is actually a bipolar patient, or he used to hit and she can show you pictures of the scars. That’s a big deal.

That’s a chance you take with anyone…divorced or not though. And if she got divorced because of domestic abuse…those transcripts or even a criminal check will be enough.