Re: Digging Up Graves
No, I would not speak to anyone about anything. Two reasons:
Many people (men and women) are muuuuuuuch more careful with their second spouses because their rose colored glasses of “I can do anything I want with this person” are gone. They’ve realized their errors and know that women (at least women in the US) will not tolerate such BS. This I’ve seen happening and I have a feeling the ex will be much more careful with his new wife than he was with me…he saw what it cost him. I made mistakes too…I didn’t ask the right questions…heck I didn’t ask ANY questions.
Second reason, and this may sound very cold, but I don’t care. Its not my problem nor my business and I would say that if someone called me. People have to leave this junk behind at some point.
Divorce transcripts are public so you can easily get those if you want to find out more about allegations and what their reasons were on paper. Although at that point, people become so nasty they forget why they’re even in court. I am telling you PCG…its useless.
As for the family telling you about how their daughter was kept…let me give you a preview: “humari phool jaisi bachi ke saat un logo ne kya kiya hum batate hein…blah blah blah”
Do istikhara, find out who this man is today and leave the rest to Allah.