Difficulty with finding a rishta---my sister's experience

[bisoux]

Re: Difficulty with finding a rishta—my sister’s experience

@Reha

To the OP…

Even if you find the most perfect guy for her…unless she’s happy with herself…it ain’t going anywhere.

She has to get out of the house and PCG gave some really good suggestions on organizations she can become involved with. There’s a higher chance of her meeting someone if she goes out and has a good time and focuses solely on that. Nothing else.

Reha, she is very outgoing and never misses a chance to involve herself in whatever that comes up. So it’s not really about her not going out.

PCG, I really think one of the problem is the cliquish-ness that you are talking about, but also how people have pre standards set in their mind and won’t get past them. It’s good to have standards set, but people need to be open minded too. One more thing many desi guys are too afraid of their parents lol.

Oh and I have noticed if you talk a lot with the guy in your first meeting then the parents will give each other glances like the girl is too forward. Wth are you supposed to do then? Read minds?