Difficult Situation....... What to do???

My frnd’s story

What shud we do to a person in such situation…

a relationship b/w two goes on smoothly since 8-9 months, both like each other, n wanna get married aswell, the realation ship is on net, both never met, but hve gud understandig,

but theres always one issue, that the guy is a bit aggressive, n sum times his anger is out of control, n last he did break that relation on sum arguements by saying “I dont wanna continue this relation anymore”

girl is so caring n loving, but cant get him back, n after a week he returns back saying appologies n stuff, n wanna patchup again, want a chance to proove himself, although he use to say his anger is too dangerous, n the limit is that he brokeup.but throughout the whole relationship, he is loving caring aswell

plz advice what shud she do now, shud give him a chance or not???

plz advice…

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In my personal opinion, all these online relationships are a waste of time. So don't waste your time anymore and find yourself a guy from and in the real world. You dont know whether the guy u r chatting with is even a guy :P lol...and there r just so many risks involved with online relationships. I am definately very against it.

dont tell me girl these days still go for net relationship .... SCARY

yaeh myself too againt it, it was just simple frndship, but teh guy is getting serious abt her

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I agree with Maham. sonye please tell your friend not to get too involved before its too late. or else she will regret. I dont know what is her age, but im sure that she can get a better man in this real world rather than going for that mad person on net. By the way no one wud believe this net relationship nowadays its so fake you dont know who the person is you're chatting with. So Please tell your friend to b careful and from onwards not to make net friends and not to provide any kind of personal details to unknown people. Remember that.

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okay the airspace was shut for planes and ppl who were to get married etc got married over the webcam … hell the airspace is back in action ..

get teh hell out and step into the real world … the biggest problem on the net is since they ve never met .. what proof is there that theres no deception in the whole thing .. i mean .. hw true are things what he says or does ..etc ..

so get over it and disconect your net and make urself busy in the real world :smack: lazy ppl .. they want to be spoon fed by sitting at home ..and with a golden spoon that a relationship falls in their lap without having to do anything ..

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please Sonye tell your friend not stay away from that guy. these men are never faithful. i don't think there's any point in giving me another chance.

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Please, no more internet relationship!

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It's difficult to say you really know someone when you've only spoken to them on the internet. It's very easy to get wrapped up in a bubble and forget about the outside world. It seems your friends caught up with this 'relationship' that she doesn't see his anger as a big enough issue to end things - but if they were together in 'real life' how would she deal with his anger? You say he's 'a bit aggressive' and then you say 'he's always out of control.' It seems he has some issues he needs to deal with.

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Block his ID :k:

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Give him a second chance. The girl wanted him back anyway. But put this in black and white. Such sort of behaviour is not acceptable and he has to change it. Who is to assure he wont divorce her the next day of wedding, if he loses temper? This is no excuse for the none sense one does. They ought to control themselves.

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Guy must be in his early 20z . :hmmm:

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People who get too angry and have absolutly no control over thier anger need to be learn or be taught the world is not there to tolerate thier tantrums.

They should be taught how would they like it if they were treated unfairly/hastly.

Everybody gets angry but there are less destructive and equally impactful ways going about it.

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I wouldn never give him a chance. If he is unable to control his anger online, imagine to what extent he could go in person. This is a very important decision, and those factors should be considered carefully.

He broke up with her once already within the 8-9 months time? Ridiculous. I wouldn't call this "caring". People like him are good at apologizing and pleading for forgiveness, but can almost never change themselves nor control their anger.

i thot so..

Yes its key to make them realize their behavior is not going to be accepted.

The thing is, going back is not very easy. Having spent 9 months together means they did glue together.

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mmmm, she is also bit attached i guess

Word and Add Jaanwar instead :smiley:

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fake relationship based over the internet..
id advise them to get real!