Difficult people

[NyFella]

Yeah at work there can be people like that, but I learned they are not gonna change so just leave 'em and their difficult and moody ways.

at home or friends etc totally different story- their are other avenues usually by talking and it works.

[LALA_land]

Re: Difficult people

I ignore them. It's worked so far. for children and adults alike. I just did it last week. You make sure you're together so it's really obvious, like sitting together.

[nadz123]

If its your wife, you chain her to the stove or the bed room and show her her place.

so THIS is serious advice ey stolenights, obv you think me slapping my husband wasnt gonna happen, ok, but obv we all reckon CM will chain his wife to the stove, hence why stolenights and nazina didnt pick on him.

[meetnauman]

[quote="“nadz123"”]

you are zalim

[meetnauman]

Re: Difficult people

Chup rahna ma Salamti ha

Avoid it and do sabarrrr

[Jaanwar]

so THIS is serious advice ey stolenights, obv you think me slapping my husband wasnt gonna happen, ok, but obv we all reckon CM will chain his wife to the stove, hence why stolenights and nazina didnt pick on him.

You make it sound like chaining one's wife to the stove is a bad thing. Come on.

[CM]

Re: Difficult people

Nadz the question is who the **** takes me seriously?

[LP]

Re: Difficult people

newbies

[stolenights]

so THIS is serious advice ey stolenights, obv you think me slapping my husband wasnt gonna happen, ok, but obv we all reckon CM will chain his wife to the stove, hence why stolenights and nazina didnt pick on him.

Ofcourse it is not a serious advice.

Now, I am seriously facing a dilemma. Should I get pissed off for you criticizing me without even knowing me or should I give you a reasonable explanation...?

It just so happened, nadz, that when I wrote the reply only your post was there. If the other post was there, I would have replied to it as well.

But, to be honest, your advice seemed like a serious one.

[Sidra_1]

@Nazina

Okay what I mean is can you remember the last time you had to deal with a negative or difficult person?** Or the last time someone said something with the intention of hurting you**? How did you handle it? What was the result? What can you do in the future to get through these situations with peace and grace?

**I said to this aunty : **

**Bohot shukriya Allah swt aap ko iss ka sawaab dein ge **

and I left.
And I still have the salam-dua. Since I told her that she changed a bit

[nadz123]

@CM

Nadz the question is who the **** takes me seriously?

And as Sara516 SAID, no one takes ME seriously.......

so why do people react violently to my posts and not yours, is it because I AM female,and hence flirting with me is outta the question.

[nadz123]

@stolenights

Ofcourse it is not a serious advice.

Now, I am seriously facing a dilemma. Should I get pissed off for you criticizing me without even knowing me or should I give you a reasonable explanation...?

It just so happened, nadz, that when I wrote the reply only your post was there. If the other post was there, I would have replied to it as well.

But, to be honest, your advice seemed like a serious one.

wow, i should congratulate you for being the first to take me seriously here. thank you.

[LP]

@nadz123

wow, i should congratulate you for being the first to take me seriously here. thank you.

We take some posts seriously..and dont take some seriously.
I have replied to a few of your posts seriously...not a reply you would liek to hear but a serious reply.

[Jaanwar]

@nadz123

And as Sara516 SAID, no one takes ME seriously.......

so why do people react violently to my posts and not yours, is it because I AM female,and hence flirting with me is outta the question.

People, please stop reacting violently to her posts and start flirting with her.

[Enigmatic]

@CM

Nadz the question is who the **** takes me seriously?

applauds the honesty :P

am not at all into astrology or the zodiacs But somehow (this might come across as a generalization)...aren't Capricorns generally really difficult people to handle!? do not mean to offend any Caps around :)

As for handling them..depends on their relationship to you. If they are just acquaintances who could be easily avoided..my advice would be stay away from them. If it's your boss, steer clear, keep your work records clean and just don't bother much !

the trouble brews when the person is your SO :p well ... your Ipod should always remain in handy when the dangerous moodswing period comes :p and if nothing works you become even a more difficult person for them :D

waise easier said than done :(

[Nazina]

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Hey hey people - now lets not get difficult!

Nadzz123 - I wasn't picking on you. Just having a laugh. (sorry)

Sidra0092 - love it - i'm gonna try that one next time :)

[nadz123]

@Jaanwar

People, please stop reacting violently to her posts and start flirting with her.

Woooohoooooooooooooooooooo

[MIAinVA]

Re: Difficult people

^:cb: Jaanwar, lets see you start the chain.

@OP: I just ignore such people and try to avoid them, it works for me

[CM]

Re: Difficult people

Firstly who the hell has been flirting with me? I demand to know, because I am either stoned when it happens or you....well....you can't be wrong. So I must be stoned.

Lastly Engie...how did you know I was a Capricorn? Hmmm....stalking me are ya? :p

[Enigmatic]

@CM

Firstly who the hell has been flirting with me? I demand to know, because I am either stoned when it happens or you....well....you can't be wrong. So I must be stoned.

Lastly Engie...how did you know I was a Capricorn? Hmmm....stalking me are ya? :p

yea sure i actually contacted the hospital you were born in ... got hold of the birth records and got the birth certificate out. and that's how I found you are a capricorn and thus my pointed hint ..why caps are DIFFICULT :p wonderful stalker aint I? :)

on a funnier side, we got another difficult capi around :D hence point proven