Re: ~Difficult Marriage scenario~
in an arranged marriage if you was to ask a guy "have u ever drank alcohol" what will his answer be"no". have u ever bunned weed? "no" all the answers to ur questions will be what u wanna hear, then once they get what they want the truth all comes out....
Re: ~Difficult Marriage scenario~
There is likely chance man will continue to drink or even more if wife keeps nagging about it.
Best time to talk about it when he is not drinking. Leave him with a smile if he is.
Worst case scenario for example is:
She says ......."You know its not good for you. Why can't you stop?" " I thought we talked about it"....Right when he is pouring the drink!
Re: ~Difficult Marriage scenario~
there are pointers in this post for guys and girls, what i have observed, all the smokers in UK do take drugs while smoking regular or occasional but whoevere smokes they do that. and the people who do drugs, commonly also drink too!
Re: ~Difficult Marriage scenario~
although addiction never leaves any1 but there are various ways of finding out the remedies as at times there are other factors involved in such evil habits. once u r married u can quit without any strong reason as such habits may b there in every 2nd person in nowadays' world and one should investigate fully all the matters bfor marriage.
if u explore later try 2 find a mid way out. if the reason bcums more significant then dcide the end bfor having any kid.