Re: ~Difficult Marriage scenario~
Consider:
One man: Doesn't do drugs, No Alcohol, No smoking, Considered "shareef"... is a terrible husband, selfish, abusive, bad tempered, uses bad languages and has no respect for wife or children.
Second man: Does drugs (lets hope its occasional and not something major like heroine), does smoke, does drink, not so very shareef. ON the one side, he's an awsome husband, loves and respects his family, very caring and all.
Honestly tell me girls, which one would you chose?
I'm not saying drinking or taking drugs is ok.** Just that its easier to make someone stop drinking than it is to change someone's attitude. Period.** Which is what the woman can work on and pray that he gets on the right path.