Differences with parents and how do you handle it?

Re: Differences with parents and how do you handle it?

If u don’t mind, will u briefly just highlight the contents of discussion causing a riot with ur parents. Perhaps u may find more justified answers and a better way to resolve the matter. For we all have gone through hurdles as such, with parents, siblings, relatives, friends, foes, err Fiancés and then the inlaws 'n ofcourse the husband and later on our own kids (hopefully not).

Because I can relate to you in a way that sometimes what our faith may preach us, we may act on it in a different manner compared to the senior generation of our elders. Which they may find offensive and we may find them hypocritical at times in return. But it all goes well in the end …insha Allah…u just stick to your guns and let not be swayed in the the direction of the mislead ones. For its easier to be swayed then to stay on the path of the Enlighten ones. I know temper can be such a set back…try not to get into an argument of rights and wrongs when u know the other can make a reasonable assessment but won’t yeild due to their egos or whatever the barrier maybe. Its best to stay quiet once u’ve stated ur point in polite and calm words. Leave the room if things are getting out of hands. Let not temper get the best of u (very hard to do so, but just try once). You know that Allah knows your intentions and its impossible to change others in their thinkings. They have the right to what they want to hold on to, and you have the right to keep your sanity intact by being patient with those that won’t listen :slight_smile:

I pray and hope all goes well for you Sadiyah!
Love: DB :flower1: