Difference of opinion

[Paheli00]

Re: Difference of opinion

@Enigmatic

^ Am glad that your fiance and you have already decided on the BIG things of life. But mostly these things for other couples come to light later on in life as they experience new circumstances.

I agree that both can’t have an equal say and both have to compromise but I think there is always one person who generally has more convincing power and ends up getting their way more often.

Agreed.

In my humble opinion, too many people (either before or during the engagement) focus on the wedding and not the marriage. As a result, there are many “surprises” after marriage.

I also agree that generally, one person is compromises more than the other…but I’m not sure if this is b/c the other person is “convincing”. At least in my relationship, I compromise a lot more than him…but that’s b/c I’m more laid back about most things. However, when I actually do care about something…he knows he has 0 chance at “winning”.