Re: Difference between being a mother in pakistan and abroad.
I guess i do understand that paksiatn is different as i go every year and see my cousins with their children and their maids.
My mum lived with her in laws for the first 4 years of my life, my brother was also constantly in and out of hospital and my dad being a doctor was super busy. But i never had a nanny, i went to nursery which ended at 4 but my mum and dad were always there to pick me up.
My phupo in calgary ( i bet you know her) if you live on the west side!did the same as my mum and lived in a joint family, they never had foreign nannies...
I am not saying anyone is wrong or right and maybe i would have a maid too if i could.
I guess im not used to it..
I dont know what im trying to say!