Its hard to talk about this boundary without using example and comparison…
If you say, “I love my dog,” but look at an apartment that doesn’t allow pets, you only liked the dog. Whoever said, “You can fall in love with a rich man as easily as a poor man,” never loved. Whoever thinks love can be measured by a bathroom scale or diminished by age, never loved.
Love is like the answer to a riddle. Other answers may seem good or clever, but only this one answer is perfect.
Love is like the right job. The job inspires you and feels like play. You crave the work, you are passionate about it. It lifts you up and drives you to new levels.
Love is the color which connects with the deepest level of your being. It is the music which speaks to you.
When you love someone, you are totally yourself with them. Nothing can drive a wedge between you. Whatever life throws at you, you deal with together.
When you reach the boundary between like and love, you know you are entering another country. You are beyond newness and infatuation. You know what Shakespeare meant when he called love “an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken.”
In short lobe is …“When the happiness, sorrow and welfare of another being becomes as important, if not more, to you as your own happiness, sorrow and welfare, the feeling generated is called LOVE.”
tum muje ye batao itne lenghty kiu banate ho post ,anyways i like it
kahi se chhaptey to nai na ho dekh lena phurra[buuti] to nai rakhtey na …but i appreciate u ..
ur welcome decent. Tumhara thread parhany say pahly topic daikh ker main soach rahi thi kay i am not sure what love exactly is. Lakin thread parh ker javab mil geea you have explained it very well.
what is wrong with lust? It is a universal & normal emotion. Anyway my hubby always have totay ki tarha rata hoa sabk kay love is beyoned looks, money , and everything else. But I always contradicted him.
But after reading these I was able to check all of these. This means it is not lust, infatuaion, crush etc anymore. I am in love yahhhhhhh :shoaby:
QUOTE <<<<<< When you love someone, you are totally yourself with them. Nothing can drive a wedge between you. Whatever life throws at you, you deal with together.
When you reach the boundary between like and love, you know you are entering another country. You are beyond newness and infatuation. You know what Shakespeare meant when he called love “an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken.”
In short lobe is …“When the happiness, sorrow and welfare of another being becomes as important, if not more, to you as your own happiness, sorrow and welfare, the feeling generated is called LOVE.”>>>>>>
uff Allah, hubby hi hai. Koi oar kabhi nahi ho sakta. I have known him since I am we grew up together & had an arrange marriage (lakin arrange ham nay khod ki thi). LOL
LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:
"When you love someone, you are totally yourself with them. Nothing can drive a wedge between you. Whatever life throws at you, you deal with together.
When you reach the boundary between like and love, you know you are entering another country. You are beyond newness and infatuation. You know what Shakespeare meant when he called love "an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken."
I like this definition...so it means my best friend and me are in "love"...so now what? love is just a greater kind of frienship!
…but i appreciate u ..
…yeh buuti wala kaaam ham nahi kertai …
yahhhhhhh :shoaby:
uff Allah, hubby hi hai. Koi oar kabhi nahi ho sakta. I have known him since I am 
we grew up together & had an arrange marriage (lakin arrange ham nay khod ki thi). LOL